I DON’T KNOW WHAT I WANT: Impact of Being Raised by a Narcissist

By Kathryn Grooms

Have you ever been asked “What do you want for the holidays?” of “Where would do you want to go to dinner?” Do you feel uncomfortable, unsure, overwhelmed or even…

The Stories We Tell Ourselves_ Moving from ‘Shoulding’ to ‘Wanting’ through Therapy

The Stories We Tell Ourselves: Moving from ‘Shoulding’ to ‘Wanting’ through Therapy

From an early age, we begin to learn stories. We hear stories about wizards, princesses,…

Words have power

WORDS MATTER: Especially When We’re Talking to Ourselves

I said to a client yesterday, you never hear a fan of a sporting event…

happy woman enjoying the view on morning mountain valley

We all need an Anthem Playlist!

I can’t remember the last time I was moved as much as I was by…

The Gift of Your Faults

The Gift of Your Faults

“I give you the gift of your faults.” In the movie A Wrinkle in Time http://movies.disney.com/a-wrinkle-in-time,…

Finding Our Way Through Fear

Finding Our Way Through Fear

Everywhere I turn today I see people experiencing fear. I see it in their eyes…

Healing Ourselves & Our Relationships

Healing Ourselves & Our Relationships

Some of the most important work I facilitate with individuals and couples is exploring what…